It is unusual these days to open an article about family
life and not read something about an unending quest for work-life balance. And
statistics about city life and children raised without the freedoms of their
parents’ childhoods are never easy bedtime reading.
And that is exactly how we felt 12 years ago when we were
losing between 6 and 8 hours a day to a city commute. And where we stretched
weekends in Cornwall visiting family or friends to a late drive home on a
Sunday… or even a shuttle at the crack of dawn to beat the M25 traffic and make
it to work on time.
But no matter how long we stretched the weekends, or how
many times we came, there just never seemed to be enough time. We always
planned to relocate, or at least to buy a second home, and were thinking about
7 years distant when our children would be nearing secondary school age.
And then one weekend in early summer we took a long weekend
in the hills not far away from the Saints Way, which is a renowned Cornish walk
from coast to coast. With sky in every direction and daily discussions about
which seaside cove was our favourite and our best, we found ourselves flicking
through a local paper after a long lunch by the river.
The ‘perfect’ family
home
And there it was, an oldish 3-bed in the middle of a couple
of acres of grounds headlined ‘perfect family home’. And my husband I agreed it was indeed a
lovely looking family home – and quite affordable. With an employer that
encouraged flexible and home working we started to think that, just maybe, a
relocation was within our sights after all.
Fast forward a year and there we were: same beach, same pub
for a weekend lunch, just a different place to call home. We didn’t pursue the
oldish house in the remote location, we opted instead for somewhere in easy
reach of town amenities and where school could be reached without the aid of a
car!
Fast forward another couple of years and we were not crushed
by the defeat and stress of primary applications and we were confident that
both boys would attend the same place with no difficulty. The move had not been
without the usual stresses associated with such a big life change, but there
was so much to look forward to that we took it all in our stride.
Cornwall is not the out of the way secret destination that
it was in my childhood. And while there is no shortage of countryside and
beaches, the area makes so much more of the opportunities that the location
affords.
Finding a balance
Our work life balance since the move has involved more than
its fair share of picnics and BBQs at the beach. But it also takes in regular
bike rides, train trips to St Ives (quite simply the most beautiful train ride
in the world) and the occasional trip to the Creally Adventure Park if the
children are celebrating a birthday.
Food is a much indulged passion in our house and we have
enjoyed finding new tastes and places – there simply is no better place in
which to enjoy seasonal, local food. There are a fantastic amount of local
artisan producers who have revived not only local interest in their trade and
skill, but have worked together to make the foodie revival a trend that is
enjoyed and embraced by the whole county.
Farmers markets are always worth seeking out, as are the
agricultural shows where producers will meet and greet and offer an array of
samples to tempt your tastebuds. And mimicking popular supermarket deliveries
to take the hassle out of your weekly shop, The Cornish Food Box deliver
seasonal and local ingredients straight to your door, regardless of where in
the county you live or how tricky it is to drive the van down your lane!
This attention to detail and level of service is something
the county is being renowned for more and more, and a huge factor in why so
many families are relocating here. There is no longer a feeling of being cut
off and away from it all. Road networks are vastly improved in recent years and
the high speed train link to London is under way.
Cornwall is one of the fastest Infinity (super fast
broadband) connections in the country so we can all work and enjoy leisure time
with no compromise. The 4G network is now linking the county better than ever
before so, with the occasion of a few secret beaches we know, the communication
black spots of old have been eradicated.
The right decision
So, some 12 years on we have found ourselves asking if we
made the right decisions. We are dashing back to London a bit more frequently
than before and the visitors trundling down the A303 have slowed as some of our
long time friends prefer a half term in the Canaries to Cornwall these days!
Our boys are now in their teens and with screen time such a
key part of their entertainment sometimes we wonder if they realise that the
beach is just a walk away. But they have freedoms that their city dwelling
cousins just don’t have. We have no anxieties about after-dark bus trips and
they have enjoyed their independence from an earlier age.
Where once we lusted after the large house with the paddock
and an apple orchard, now we are pleased to be the ‘in town’ destination where
the boys congregate before sports fixtures, or where pizzas are delivered to
after a cinema trip!
The quality of schools in the region is second to none and
combined with the low crime rate, we are certain that there truly is no better
place to raise a family. Our work life balance is better than most, we are part
of a thriving and supportive local community – and the local pub has welcomed
our kids for family meals from toddler age to teen.
And when we can get them out the door in time there is
always a beach to head to for a sausage sandwich. Cooked on the BBQ with sand
in our toes and the sea in our sights – simply put, there is no better way to
start the weekend!
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